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Some times ago I felt bored of my ordinary life. It was not fun. Everywhere I went people would ask the same question, “When will you get married?”

            Well of course they had different way in asking this question, like these:

Ø  “What’s up? Ready to get married?” (this was my college friends)

Ø  “Have you found your Superman dear?” (this was sister Hanim, my trip-to-Singapore-soul mate)

Ø  “So when …?” (this was brother Hasan Firdaus. I don’t even need the next words to make sure :p)

Ø  “You’ll remember inviting us for the D-day, right?” (this was my graduate students. You know, they blinked one eye while they were saying those words!)

Ø   “Please, it’s impossible for you to marry that Spencer Reid!” (hahaha, this was sister Mei, one of my BFFs)

Ø  “Sis, my friend’s seeking for woman to be his wife. Wanna try?” (gee, this one was sister Emil)

Ø  And so on, and so on!

Gosh! They made those simple questions so hard to answer. Wanna know what my answers were? I answered like this (based on the list of question above):

Ø  “Sure I am ready. When do you think it’s good? Next year? Next week?”

Ø  “Sorry, my Superman’s still busy helping people all around the world. Do I have choice?”

Ø  “When the time is right for me exactly. Am I right?”

Ø  “Will you be there on the D-day if I invite you guys?”

Ø  “Come on, how can you be so sure that MGG won’t marry me?”

Ø  “Try? Do you think just try is a good idea?”

Ø  And so on, and so on.

I always ended each answer with another question for them. I don’t know whether it’s a kind of creativity or it’s just the way I escape myself from those question. Well I don’t want to spend my days thinking only about the answer of those questions. Life is too short. If they really want to know the answers, all they have to do is waiting for the right time, like I do now. 

Or …, when I and my friends sit together, I show them the pics of Dr. Spencer Reid I saved on mobile phone and seriously say, ”Look, this is my darling pic.”

It may sound silly but, believe it or not, I enjoy looking at the frown on my friends’ face when they find that cute handsome guy on my mobile phone. Hahaha.

I have learned that happiness truly comes from the heart. You’ll be happy when you think you are happy. It doesn’t matter if you are single or married. But still I do believe if we have someone special to share this life, we’ll find the complete happiness in this life. So, there’s no reason for me to be unhappy. The next thing to do is to complete my happiness by thinking positive. Allah will never leave me, though for a while. Bless me always …